Wendi's burial

This is Brian with another blog post. Wendi's ashes were buried last Friday, November 6, 2009. She has been laid to rest at Dearborn Cemetery in Poway. Here's the website:

http://www.dearborncemetery.net

There's no headstone right now; it takes several weeks to have it made, so it will probably be another month or more before there's a headstone to visit.

I'm not sure what else to put on this blog. Unless someone requests otherwise, this will probably be the last post. Wendi has been laid to rest. Her journey has ended; it didn't end the way any of us hoped it would, but it has ended nonetheless. I don't think it makes sense for me to talk about what it's like to lose my wife to cancer, for a couple of reasons. First and foremost, this was Wendi's blog, not mine. It was intended to tell her story, not mine. Second, I'm not sure how much description I can give such a horribly devastating sense of loss. It's something you either understand or you don't. Millions of people have gone through this process, and now I have to go through it. Wendi would have wanted me to move on; she would have wanted me to live my life to the fullest, just as she did. That will happen with time, but for now, I still have to grieve the loss of my wife. She was a wonderful, special woman, and I will miss her terribly.